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Not What I Planned at 36 Weeks: When life changes the pace, rest isn’t failure, it’s wisdom.

Not What I Planned at 36 Weeks: When life changes the pace, rest isn’t failure, it’s wisdom.

You don’t really plan for an unexpected hospital stay when you’re this close to the finish line. You’re thinking about folding tiny clothes, organizing drawers, maybe nesting a little more, not getting slowed down by something you didn’t see coming.

But here we are.

I’m okay. Honestly, I feel grateful and a little humbled. This week just looked different than I imagined, and it’s asking me to slow down and receive care instead of powering through. The good news is I’m being well taken care of, everything is being monitored closely, and I’m feeling better than I did when this first started. I’m really thankful for that.

Still… it wasn’t exactly what I had planned for these final weeks.

And I think that’s what’s been sitting with me the most.

Life can shift the pace without asking for permission. One minute you’re running full speed - business growing, meetings on the calendar, family life moving, nursery not quite ready (🫣) and the next minute you’re reminded that you’re not the one in control of the timeline.

And slowing down when you’re wired to build, create, lead, and show up? That’s not always easy.

I know I’m not the only one who’s felt that.

Especially women. Especially moms. Especially women building businesses while building families - carrying a lot, holding a lot, trying to do it all well. And even when you know you’re doing your best, the world can still whisper that slowing down means you’re falling behind. That pausing means you’re dropping something. That rest has to be earned.

But I don’t believe that.

I’m learning (again) that slowing down isn’t a step back, it’s wisdom. It’s strength. It’s choosing what matters most when everything else is loud.

Because the truth is… the nursery can wait. The unfinished projects can wait. The schedule can shift. The meetings can be rearranged. The “perfect timing” can be rewritten.

What matters most is the health of this baby. The health of my body. The safety of our family.

And I’ve had to make a very real decision: to trust.

To trust God’s timing.
To trust the process.
To trust the support around me.
To trust that I’m not carrying this alone.

I’m so grateful for my family. For the love of a husband who works hard and is my biggest cheerleader, the one who covers our family and our lives in prayer, the one who steadies me when my mind wants to race ahead.

And I’m deeply grateful for our team. A team that doesn’t just “work” they care. They check in. They lead with love and perseverance. They show up every day with heart. They believe in this dream as much as I do, and I don’t take that for granted.

Because this is the part I want you to hear:

Yes, life can feel like it’s moving really fast. Time can feel like it’s flying. The world can be rushing around you.

But you are not meant to run your marathon alone.

And you’re not weak for needing to pause.

If you’re in a season where your body is asking you to slow down, where life is asking you to shift, where the plan is changing in real time… you are not behind. You are not failing. You are not doing less.

You’re honoring your season.

You’re protecting what matters.

And sometimes, stopping is not a setback it’s part of the process.

So yes, I’m still thinking about that nursery room like… we’re cutting it close 😂

Yes, our life still feels full.
Yes, I still have moments where I want everything to be done and tied up neatly.

But I’m also the most excited I’ve ever been to meet our baby boy healthy, strong, and in the timing that’s meant for him. No matter what my calendar said. No matter what my to-do list wanted. No matter what I assumed these weeks would look like.

I’m choosing to believe we’re protected.

I’m choosing to believe we’re supported.

And I’m choosing to trust God’s timing, even when it surprises me.

Thank you for the love you’ve shown us. For the prayers, the check-ins, the kindness. For doing life with us here.

MegMade is a dream we get to live because of you - your support, your encouragement, your belief in what we’re building.

And if you needed a reminder today:

You’re doing your best.

You’re not alone.

And slowing down doesn’t mean you’re falling behind.

Sometimes it means you’re being carried.

With love and so much gratitude,

Meg 🤍

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